“Pride is a vice, which cleaves so fast unto the heart
of men, that if we were to strip ourselves off all faults, one by one, we should
undoubtedly find it the very last and hardest to put off.” Thomas Hooker
Today is Palm Sunday. It’s the ticker tape
parade of the New Testament. It’s the victory march. It’s recorded in all four
gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke and John) and is referred to as the “Triumphal
Entry.”
As I was contemplating all of this, one
amazing fact stands out to me. Though thousands were there to welcome Him,
though Jesus was being acclaimed as the King of the Jews, though His way was
paved with His followers garments and layers of palm leaves (hence the expression
“Palm Sunday”), yet in spite of all of this Jesus did not give in to the one
sin that torpedoes all of us over and over and over again – PRIDE. That to me
is astounding. But catapult that event 2,000 years. Can you imagine a sports
hero or elected official being welcomed by a ticker tape parade like a
conquering hero and yet not succumbing to pride? Can you imagine them not
thinking about how great, talented, attractive or wonderful they are? Yet, our
Lord, though He’s worthy of our praise and worship never once succumbed to
pride. That’s amazing!
If you listed out what you think are the vilest
and most hideous sins, would pride even make your list? Yet, pride is the seed
for every other sin. Someone wisely said, “There are only two safe places for a
Christian—in the dust and in heaven. And of the two the dust is safer, for
Satan fell from heaven.” Pride is the very first sin in all of
God’s creation. It destroyed the perfect beauty of heaven and quickly invaded
earth. It is truly the sin of Satan. It was pride that brought Lucifer down and
cost our first parents Paradise. It’s the first sin to enter a man’s heart and
the last to leave. No sin is more offensive to God than the sin of pride. Pride
has been called the “complete anti-God
state of mind.”
Pride condemns more to a Christless eternity
than any other sin. We’re in the Easter Season. When I talk to someone
about heaven or hell, rarely do I meet someone who has not been deceived by
pride. Most think that they’ll go to heaven because they’re basically a “good”
person, or they go to church, or have obeyed the Ten Commandments. The Cross of
Christ nails that pernicious lie to the doors of hell. If there were any other
way that we could go to heaven, if there were any other way that our sins and
crimes against God could be paid for so that God could be just in forgiving us
– would a loving Father sacrifice His own Son? Isn’t that the meaning behind
Jesus’ prayer in the Garden, “If it be
possible, let this cup pass from Me” (Matthew 26:39). It wasn’t. There was
no other way. It’s Jesus only and only Jesus. The Bible teaches the exclusivity
of Jesus Christ – He is the only way to heaven (John 14:6).
Pride causes more cowardice on the part of Christians
than any other sin. I like to be liked. It bothers me when people
whisper about me behind my back or suggest that I’m some type of fanatic or
wacko. Being caricatured with some of the “Christians” that are “so out there”
weighs on me. And I find that my pride can shut my mouth and silence me faster when
it comes to sharing the gospel than any other sin I deal with. While I may not
be driven to be popular, I at least like to be liked…don’t you?
Pride produces prayerlessness. Humility
is detestable to the independent self-made man or woman. What’s the most
difficult act for most of us? To ask someone for help, to admit that we can’t
do it, that we haven’t got our act totally together. Isn’t that why we only
tend to become serious about prayer when we’re desperately desperate? We pray
when our marriage is falling apart or when our child is going off the deep end
and nearly every other avenue has been explored. We pray when we’re sinking
financially, or a loved one is facing a terminal illness. Sure, we pray at other
times but let’s be honest, it’s more like a “wish list.” There is little
intensity and certainly no desperation. Humility always precedes true prayer,
but prayerlessness is the first sign of pride. Proud people don’t pray. Why
would they? They don’t need anyone really, even God.
Pride gives birth to conflict. It’s
hard to say you’re sorry or admit that you blew it, and are wrong. Even when we
do, we often fudge our admission with some type of rationalization. It’s pride
that ruins relationships and massacres marriages. Pride is often at the root of
church splits or church drifts, as believers just grow cold to their church
family and just drift away. “Where
there is strife, there is pride” (Proverbs 13:10). Just as
pride erects a barrier between us and God, it builds walls between us and
others. Love builds bridge; Pride erects walls. It’s pride that keeps us from
apologizing when we’re wrong and causes us to defend yourself. It can cause us
to look down on others and steals some of our most treasured relationships in
life. “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Will you please forgive me?” are healing words
that only a humble soul will use.
Pride is horrible and perverse sin. No wonder
Andrew Murray said, “Welcome everything
that helps you on toward humility.” Listing the various forms of pride are
nearly limitless. Arrogance and conceit are as common as the air we breathe.
Pride must become a sin to be hated, a sin to be confessed, a sin to mourn
over, a sin to flee, and a sin to fight against. The bottom line is that pride
must die or nothing of God can live in us.
Humility is trait that always marks God’s people
even though it’s our toughest battle. Obviously, the first step toward becoming
humble is realizing and confessing to God that we’re proud. Continually, we
must drag our pride to the foot of the Cross. It’s only by contemplating
Christ’s Cross that we can begin to defeat this heinous sin.
And if pride is the evil of evils, then humility
is the virtue of virtues. Humility is a fruit of God’s grace. It’s only as we
rely on God’s grace and His Spirit that we can have victory over pride but pride
dies hard. Just when you think you’ve killed it and are finally humble, it’s
once again been resuscitated. Yet, it is only in humility that we can truly
walk with God and have His hand of blessing on our lives. So fight and don’t
quit!