Making the Most of Mistakes!

 “Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life.”  Sophia Loren 

  Have you ever dialed a wrong number? I’m not talking about a butt call, but actually getting the numbers confused and dialing a wrong number. How about making a wrong turn? Sent an email to the wrong person or did a reply all when you should have replied to one person? 

  2022 is still in the delivery room. You probably already know this…you’re going to make mistakes this year, lots of them.

  There’s a tendency for most people to confuse mistakes with sins. They’re not the same. The term “mistake” implies an error in judgment—something done unintentionally. A legitimate mistake might be…turning onto a one-way street, going the wrong way, or pouring salt into your coffee, thinking it was sugar, calling someone the wrong name or completely forgetting their name. It’s picking up Pepsi when you’re supposed to buy Coke. These could all be legitimate mistakes.

  A sin is more than a mistake. It’s a deliberate choice to do something you know is wrong. The word “transgression” is stronger. It implies deliberately stepping over a boundary. 

  In 2022, you’re going to make mistakes. Mistakes though are just part of an imperfect world. They can even be fun or open doors to new adventures.

  At the beginning of December 2021 one Pontiac, Michigan, high school basketball team sent out a group text to a wrong number. The person that they inadvertently messaged was Tampa Bay Buccaneers cornerback, Sean Murphy-Bunting. Their mistake would lead to a FaceTime call with some of the biggest stars in the Bucs' locker room that day.

  The call started because they didn't believe who Murphy-Bunting was. He then got tight end, Rob Gronkowski, to join in, before handing the phone off to cornerback, Richard Sherman, and running back, Leonard Fournette. Fournette stayed on FaceTime for a good 10 minutes while Tom Brady finished up a meeting. The boys are absolutely losing it during this. After some time passes he pops up on the screen and says “What’s up fellas?!?!” And those boys lose their minds!

  “That was sweet,” Brady said of the impromptu FaceTime. “I didn't know who it was. [Leonard] said, ‘Here's my boy’ or whatever he said. It was nice. It would have been nice for me when I had been in high school too.”

  And when Tom Brady found out the kids were from Michigan? “Even better,” he said. “That was fun. That was really fun. It was really good to see all those young kids hyped up.”

  That’s a mistake that they’ll tell their children and grandchildren about. To me, it’s what makes Tom Brady a G.O.A.T. It’s not just his unbelievable skills on the football field, it’s how he and those other professional football players treated some teenagers who had simply dialed the wrong number.

  You’re going to make mistakes. I’m going to make mistakes. Everyone you know is going to make mistakes.

  If you can, enjoy your mistakes. If you make a wrong turn or miss your exit, the world will not end. If you dial a wrong number, it’s just human error. If you spill something or break something or lose something…it’s just a mistake. 

  One of the greatest gifts that a parent can give a child is the freedom to make mistakes. Kids accidentally spill things, break things, and lose things (Big kids do too!). It’s part of growing up. It’s not the time to read them the riot act. It was just part of being human…just like their parents.

  Most of us need to learn to take life far less seriously. I’ll never forget when Jane and I were first married and I wanted to repay a friend for repairing my car with a southern meal. So I cooked: fried chicken, biscuits, and buttermilk gravy to repay him. But I made a big mistake with the biscuits. Rather than a teaspoon of baking powder, I didn’t understand the abbreviation and put in a tablespoon of baking powder. They were horrible! But my friend was so gracious and only laughed at my blunder. 

  Turn mistakes into adventures and opportunities. Our children always knew that life for our family was about to get interesting if we were driving somewhere and either Jane or I looked at each other and said, “Pudding!”

  It’s a code word from the George Bernard Shaw play, Pygmalion (it later inspired the film version, My Fair Lady). For the two actors who used the code word, it meant that an adventure had started. 

  Life is often an adventure and a fun one. There were many unique places we went or people that we met just because we’d made a wrong turn. Rather than becoming angry or anxious, look for the fun opportunity.

  Alaska is one of the fifty states because Russia thought they needed money more than territory and sold it to the U.S. for a mere 2 cents an acre. Though ridiculed “Seward’s Folly” mocking then U.S. Secretary of State William H. Seward’s purchase of the territory, in just 50 years the USA was able to earn from Alaska more than 100 times what they had invested in its purchase. 

  Let your mistakes cultivate that needed gift of humility in your life. J.K. Rowling, who was a client of the Christopher Little Literary Agency, was rejected 12 times in row for her first novel. Finally, when the eight-year-old daughter of an editor at Bloomsbury expressed her desire to read the rest of the book, Bloomsbury decided to publish Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone. However, the editor believed that this novel would be a major flop, and even went to the extent of advising Rowling to look for a backup day-time job. And the rest is history. Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone, which was released in 1997, and the following four novels in the series, became the fastest-selling books ever, with a total of 450 million copies sold worldwide. It’s the bestselling book series in literary history. 

  Life is not a planned perfect selfie. It’s more like a scene from America’s Funniest Bloopers. You can choose to become embarrassed or irritated, or you can laugh at the reminder that you’re human. Being human means we humbly admit that we blow it and don’t have all of the answers.

  In 2022 learn to laugh at yourself. It will keep your soul healthy (Proverbs 17:22) and give you some needed perspective that this isn’t a perfect world and neither are we. And taking life a lot less seriously sure makes the day-to-day journey a lot more enjoyable! 

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