Monday, November 30, 2015

I'm dreaming of a stress free Christmas

“A Christmas miracle is when your family doesn’t get into a single argument all day.” Melanie White

For some reason, no other holiday seems to bring out the worst in us than Christmas. Hopefully…obviously, the number one way to keep Christ in your Christmas celebrations is to have Him present in your daily life and not just at Christmas. As believers, keeping Christ in Christmas is more about the way we live our lives than any of the things that we say—such as “Merry Christmas” versus “Happy Holidays.” Keeping Jesus in Christmas means living moment by moment in the power of the Spirit revealing the character, love and spirit of Christ that dwells in us, allowing these traits to shine through your actions. Probably, none of us this will be new, yet they’re good reminders to help us keep Christ the central focus of our lives this Christmas season, after all, it is OUR holiday. What other time of year can we walk into stores or the mall and hear music directing us to worship Christ the Lord? When else can we stroll through offices and see strings of cards depicting nativity scenes? Let’s be wise and take advantage of these seasonal opportunities, keeping our focus on Christ and sharing the gospel in the process.
  * Find a devotional guide or take the time to plan out a Bible reading schedule to carry you through Christmastime with daily meditations on Christ’s advent, incarnation, virgin birth, and Davidic lineage. If you haven’t already, memorize the Christmas story in Luke 2.
  * Pray. Make a list of the people in your life who need the Savior. Pray for them and ask the Lord to give you opportunities to share with them.
  * Have a family meeting. Talk about the fact that the Prince of Peace has come and you’re committed to having His peace in your home this season. Be honest about changes in the schedule with school out, late nights or extra activities. Enlist the whole family as an army of peacemakers.
  * Correspond. Include the gospel in annual Christmas letters. Choose cards with a message, or consider making your own. If you have young children, this might be a great family activity. If you support a child through an organization like World Vision or Compassion International, tuck in some Christmas-themed stickers with your greeting card.
  * Decorate. Let your Christmas tree serve as a reminder that Christ hung on a tree so that one day we might be invited to eat freely from the Tree of Life. You might place your crèche in a central location, yet leave the cradle empty until Christmas morning—when you make a grand celebration of the baby’s arrival.
  * Invite. Ask unchurched friends to join you in attending a Christmas production. Invite neighbors over for dinner and share what Christmas means to you. Take a child shopping with you to buy toys for underprivileged kids. Adopt a family that is struggling that you can be a blessing to. Be extra generous in your tip (and attitude) when you’re out to eat with the servers. Sometimes when we’re out, our family has looked for an individual or family who’s also there, and anonymously paid their bill.
  * Give wisely. For the people on your Christmas list, select gifts with eternity in view. Consider giving books, music, videos, subscriptions or even tickets to special events that will encourage each recipient in his or her relationship with Christ.
  * Give of yourself. USA Today reports that 30% of Americans spend $750 or more on Christmas presents. 19% say they’ll shell out over $500 for gifts, and 22% will buy $250 worth of stuff. A mere 8% expect Christmas spending to be less than $100. Instead of laying out so much cash consider meaningful gifts you can create. Make a gift certificate for three hours of free childcare for a friend or neighbor. Write your life story—including your personal testimony—and give copies to your children or grandchildren. Have your parents’ home movies transferred to video or disk and give copies to the whole family. Give an old family recipe in a basket full of all the ingredients. Record yourself reading a favorite Bible story and send it to your grandkids.
  * Give food. Take a basket of Christmas dinner food to someone in need. If you have children, take them with you and talk about the One who said, “It’s better to give than to receive.”
  * Take the whole family and carol a shut-in or elderly person who has difficulty going out during the winter. You could even encourage another family to join you, and go out for hot chocolate afterwards.
  * Clean out attic or closets. If you have extra bedding, pillowcases, or coats, take them to a place like the Milwaukee Rescue Mission that ministers to the homeless. Rather than saving it all for later, put it to a good use now.
  * Invest. If people ask what you want for Christmas, provide the name of your church or some other favorite charity and ask them to make a donation, instead of buying you another ugly sweater.
  * Spend time visiting shut-ins or teaching literacy. Build bridges so you can cross them to share Christ’s love. Please don’t limit yourself to Christian charities—your work in a secular setting could provide you with opportunities to share with other volunteers who might never go to church.
  * Give a surprise gift of service to each member of your family. Jesus taught us to serve by washing the disciples’ feet. The idea of giving an unexpected gift of service to members of your family demonstrates both Christ-like love and service. Maybe give a back rub to your spouse, run an errand for your brother, or clean out a closet for your mother. Make it personal and meaningful, and watch the blessings multiply.
  * Set aside a time for family devotions on Christmas Eve or Christmas morning. Before opening the gifts, take a few minutes to gather together as a family in prayer and devotions. Read the Christmas story again in Scripture. Perhaps have each family member read a portion. Then, take some time and discuss as a family the true meaning of Christmas.
  * Attend one of the Grace Church’s Christmas Eve Services together with your family. If you’re alone this Christmas or don’t have family living near you, invite a friend or a neighbor to join you. 
  Please plan now for a peace-filled, joyful holiday, before the craziness of the Christmas season consumes you and choose to truly keep Christ in Christmas this year! 

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