“Growth is
painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck
somewhere you don't belong.” Mandy Hale
There’s just something demoralizing about
being stuck. Did you happen to get stuck during the recent snow storm? We did.
Fortunately, we were finally able to dig out all but one car. Thanks goodness
for AAA!
When I have to drive through Chicago, if I can possibly time it
correctly, I’ll either leave very early or very late but I do everything I can
to avoid being stuck in traffic. It’s
estimated the average American commuter spends 38 hours a year stuck in traffic.
That’s the equivalent of a week at work when you’re stuck in traffic every year.
It’s even worse in big cities. For urban residents in areas like D.C., Los
Angeles and San Francisco, the typical car commuter spends more than 60 hours –
sitting in his car, stuck.
Being stuck is a part of life, whether it’s stuck in a boring lecture, a
monotonous day at work, or a prolonged wait at the dentist’s office. We hate
feeling stuck! Yet, there’s something far more serious. It’s being stuck spiritually.
The
Christian life is to be fulfilling, purposeful and meaningful. Yet, many
believers are just stuck. They’re in a spiritual rut. The worst part is that
they believe that the “rut” is normal. It’s not!
God
doesn’t want us to be stuck. Even though the Apostle Paul was “stuck” in a Roman
prison (think dungeon), though he was continuously persecuted, tortured, hated
and mistreated, he still said, “we rejoice in
hope of the glory of God” (Romans 5:2). From a human perspective, Paul was
the poster child for what it meant to be “stuck,” but he wasn’t. He was free!
His life had fulfillment, purpose and meaning. How about you? Does yours? Or, are
you just stuck? Here are some symptoms of being stuck. Do a self-test and
evaluate if maybe you’re stuck.
Life
feels like it’s déjà vu. You feel you’re constantly ending up in the
same situation. Maybe you work hard to change things, yet the more you try, the
more things stay the same. People in the workplace do this all the time. They
hate their job. They moan, groan and bellyache ad nauseam. Finally, they’re so fed
up, they jump ship. They find a similar job with similar pay but with a
different employer. Many just move to a different or department within the same
company but have a different group they work with and a different supervisor.
But in a few months, they feel like all they’ve done is go around in a huge
circle. They’re as upset and as unhappy as they were before. The only thing
that changed was their location. When our spiritual life becomes like that,
we’re in trouble.
Everything
is seemingly harder than it should be. Nothing is easy. There are
constant delays, unexpected problems, unforeseen complications, etc. Everything
you attempt to do seems to demand monumental effort. Things that should be
straightforward to accomplish, aren’t. You seem to always be in the wrong place
at the wrong time. Nothing you do seems to move you forward no matter how hard
you try. You’re out of sync with everyone and everything.
You
have a perpetual case of the blahs. You’re bored. Life lacks joy. You’re
tired and listless. Deep down you know something isn’t right. Your heart tells
you you’re not in the right place and aren’t going in the right direction. You
feel trapped, even hopeless. You begin to feel anxious and yet you don’t really
understand why you’re feeling the way you do.
You
worry about nearly everything. You expect the worst and it’s often a
self-fulfilling prophecy. You find yourself continually bemoaning, “Why me?” You
don’t have confidence in your decisions and fear the future.
Life is
a constant struggle. Physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually,
you’re drained. You’re going through the motions. You just don’t know what to
do anymore.
If
this describes you, you’re stuck. But our Heavenly Father doesn’t want us to be
stuck, so it’s time for a spiritual jump start.
The
Gospel insists that forward movement and transformation is possible. Not easy
and rarely quick. But possible by God’s grace. We were not designed to be
stuck. God doesn’t want us in spiritual gridlock, just treading water. He has so
much more for us.
A
restart begins to take place as we become intensely serious about learning from
God’s Word and letting Jesus rearrange our lives. Wise, fulfilled individuals
across the millennia have trusted the Lord Jesus and devoted themselves to do
this. Yet, Jesus’ way needs to be reexamined and reapplied to every age and
social setting. It needs to be reapplied as we go through different passages of
life from singleness to senior citizens, and everything in between.
Over the next five Sundays we’re going to plug into the wisdom of God’s
Word and investigate how to jump start our spiritual lives. The reality is that
we’re more comfortable with Interstates, I-phones and Isis than we are with the
reflection, quiet and solitude that studying God’s Word and His solution
require. Wonderfully, to have the fulfilled life God designed for us to have
doesn’t mean we have to leave our life to join a monastery. A spiritual restart
with true change begins internally. It’s not dependent on our life’s circumstances
or environment. Too often Satan deceives us into thinking that we need a change
in our situation or location. Our omnipresent Heavenly Father knows that the
medicine we need is for our souls and it applies in every situation. Rarely, do
we need an external change…though most of us think that. Our solution is a
heart change.
Our issue isn’t even poor self-esteem or some failure to accept
ourselves. While it may be part of the problem, the solution begins as we
realize that we are, as the King James words it, “accepted in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:6) and that our Heavenly
Father has the cure, with a purpose and plan for our lives.
Please
don’t stay stuck. Instead, will you plug you in? Determine to join us next
Sunday and for the following four weeks. Allow the Spirit to attach the jumper cables
of God’s Word and His power on your soul and jump start your heart and life. It’s
time to Jumpstart your faith!
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