“Pride is a person
having too high an opinion of himself. Pride is the first sin that ever entered
into the universe, and the last sin that is rooted out. Pride is the worst sin…Pride
is God’s most stubborn enemy!..There is no sin so
much like the devil as pride.” Jonathan Edwards
In
the third century, Cyprian, the bishop of Carthage, wrote that Christians don’t
“speak great things, but we live them.” Yet, it’s easier to speak about
truth than it is to live out the truth. But Christians who only talk yet
fail to walk are frightening. The most frightening Christians that I
encounter are those who act like they have all of the answers. They love to
share their opinions and pontificate to other “mere mortals.”
No doubt you’ve run across them. Hopefully, you’re not one. It sometimes feels like they’re ubiquitous. They either
have a blog or use their Facebook page (or post on everyone else’s) sharing
their insights. They’re on Twitter slamming all the other ignoramuses out there.
By now probably a
couple of names have popped into your head. These individuals believe that it’s their calling to correct everyone else who is not as enlightened as they are. Sometimes
they’re disciples of some celebrity pastor and quote them ad nauseam. They’re
modern-day Pharisees.
I wish I could say that pride or arrogance
weren’t sins I struggle with. I frequently find Benjamin Franklin’s insights very
apropos for my own life.
In his autobiography, Franklin
focuses on the weakness of human pride. He observed, “In reality,
there is, perhaps, no one of our natural passions so hard to subdue as pride.
Disguise it, struggle with it, beat it down, stifle it, mortify it as much as
one pleases, it is still alive, and will every now and then peep out and show
itself; you will see it, perhaps, often in this history; for, even if I could
conceive that I had completely overcome it, I should probably be proud of my
humility.” Most can relate to being “proud of our humility.” Like Franklin,
we must admit that we, too, struggle with pride.
The
greatest danger of being a spiritual know-it-all is that you’re stuck
spiritually. If you believe that you have the answers, you are no longer
growing. Your pride has become a blockage to continued spiritual growth.
If
you believe that you have all of the answers, attending church is little more
than symbolic. You don’t come as a student or a disciple. Christian know-it-alls
rarely attend a study or small group, after all, they have the answers. If you
read books, you read those that agree with you. Mr. or Ms. Know-it-All doesn’t
really think that they have to learn anything. They’re already there. They are,
in effect, unteachable.
When
you put a word like “unteachable” next to this, it’s a major sin problem.
Christians, when thinking biblically, operate out of the realization that they
actually do not know everything that they need to know. As believers,
we are to be learners until we get Home to glory.
We
have things to learn both intellectually and empirically. God designed the local
church to provide a context where we can grow in godliness and Christian
maturity. Consider Ephesians 4:11-14: “And He gave
the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists,
the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of
ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all
attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of
God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the
fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to
and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human
cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.”
Notice
that from Ephesians 4 that God provides teachers and these teachers are to
teach Scripture. Saints (Christians) need to be equipped to serve so the local church
is built up and this must go on until we all grow into Christlikeness. Christlikeness
and spiritual maturity are the goal. So what are some symptoms of being a Christian Know-it-All?
They
tend to be critical and petty. It’s almost like they thrive in
finding out someone’s “wrong view” about something. Instead of seeing the
church as a place to grow, they see it as a place to show what they know.
They
talk (or post) a lot but don’t listen very much. This makes
sense–why not talk (if you know it all) and why listen (if they don’t)?
They
enjoy squabbling about little things. They will argue about all
kinds of things that would seem to be of secondary (or even lesser) importance.
They
tend to lack compassion. Having no perceived weakness of their own,
they can’t relate to others who are struggling. Often times they’re condescending
or devolve into harshness or disengagement with the weak.
They
like to talk about people. This is divisive to unity in the Body.
Instead of prizing unity, Christlikeness, and spiritual maturity, they delight
in knocking others down, disrupting unity, and building themselves up. Their
conversations with other Christians devolve into stories of how much they know
and how much others do not.
They
only seem to have a lot of biblical knowledge. They drop $5 words to effectively
argue their point. Often they’re involved and appear to have things together. However,
the fact that they’re unteachable makes them dangerous in the local church and
a detriment to their own spiritual health and the growth of the Body.
The
Lord designed for a church family and small groups to be places where we feel the liberty
to be the most authentic version of ourselves and admit how little we know and
how often we struggle. Those who are truly wise depend on God’s grace and work
to remain humble.
Humility
and teachability go together. Humility begins by simply realizing you’re not
God and how little you know. Spiritual growth always begins with humility. We
must come cognizant of how little we know and thirsting to learn, to grow, and
to apply God’s truth to our lives. The goal is not to outshine other believers
but to be more and more like Jesus.
Do
you have a goal of becoming wiser and growing in your faith? Get to know God. Study
Scripture. Listen to teaching, even teaching you don’t necessarily agree with.
Read books and determine to read those who differ from you. Apply what you
learn to your life.
As
you expose yourself to other insights and perspectives, you’ll be wiser, and know
better how to walk with the Lord and serve Him. Humility reminds us of how
little we know and that we can learn from anyone. All of us have so much to
learn. It’s why we must remain teachable, humble, and lifelong learners until
we get Home.
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