“The privilege of
a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” C.G. Jung
Okay, I’ll confess. I love Halloween candy. When I was a kid, I loved
candy corn and peanut butter kisses…today, not so much. For as long as I can
remember, my favorite candy bar has been Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup.
Every
birthday, Christmas and virtually any other holiday, my wonderful family,
knowing my love for them showers me with Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups in all
shapes and sizes. (FYI: November 4th is King Tut Day. Wouldn’t it
be nice to honor old Pharaoh by giving Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup to me? You may
not know that November 13th is World
Kindness Day. I’ll kindly take any Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups you
send my way.)
The
one area Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups fails abysmally in though is marketing. They
have the worst commercials. They’re nearly as annoying the Kit Kat ones. Hands
down, Snickers has the best candy bar commercials. I’m sure you’ve seen them. An
individual is acting uncharacteristically irritable or whiny. Finally, someone
hands them a Snickers and they transform into just who we’d expect them to be.
One
has some young men playing a pickup game of football. In their midst is Betty
White playing poorly and making snide remarks to her teammates. Finally, someone
on the sideline tells her to eat a Snickers and we hear the tagline: “You’re not you when you’re hungry. Eat a
Snickers.” After eating a Snickers, the individual returns to their
authentic self.
Authenticity is a popular buzz word. Isn’t
authentic what you’re like most of the time? Wouldn’t authentic be what you’re
like for 10, 20 or 100 years? What if you were that way for millennia…wouldn’t
that be your authentic self? One of the most wonderful summations of authenticity
is said of Jesus in Hebrews 13:8, “Jesus
Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” Jesus is
authentic. He hasn’t changed and never will. Did you know though that one day
soon, every believer will be authentic and you don’t need a Snickers bar?
Last
Sunday we studied Luke 9:27-36. Remember, Moses and Elijah met with Jesus in
the Transfiguration. Moses had been dead 1,500 years. Elijah was whisked away alive
in a chariot of fire 800 years before. When they met with Jesus on the mount,
they were authentic. Neither of them were ever going to change. Moses no longer
struggled with anger management. Elijah no longer battled depression. They were
in their glorified state.
Two
of the most encouraging verses in Scripture for me as I deal with this earth
suit and seek to be authentic are Romans 8:29-30: “For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be
conformed to the image of His Son, in order that He might be the firstborn
among many brothers. And those whom He predestined He also called, and
those whom He called He also justified, and those whom He justified He
also glorified.” What those verses simply mean is that in God’s mind
because He’s eternal and already living in the future – every believer is
already in their glorified state. They are authentically perfect and glorified.
In other words, our perfect, glorified state is who we really are. So if you’re
a believer, your glorified state is who you really are and it can never be
improved on.
As a child of God, I want to more authentic
now in anticipation of the authentic I’ll ultimately and eternally be. Becoming
authentic simply means I’m more and more like Jesus. It’s spiritual maturity.
It’s not instant or automatic; it’s a gradual, progressive development. Referring
to this process, Ephesians 4:13 says, “this
will continue until we are…mature, just as Christ is, and we will be completely
like Him” (CEV). Three vital commitments contribute to us being more
authentic today.
Authentic
Christians consistently spend time with Jesus. The most precious story
of all time is how Jesus loved us and came into the world to die for our sins
so we could be forgiven and have a relationship with Him forever. The Bible is
God’s love letter to us. As we read the Bible, we must depend on the Holy
Spirit to teach us. Every time we open God’s Word, we should pause and ask the Spirit
to teach us God’s truth and make us more like Jesus. Sadly, too few Christians actually
read their Bibles. Please read your Bible regularly. Not only does it change
your relationship with God, it will change your relationship with everyone
else.
Authentic
Christians faithfully attend church. There aren’t a lot of things I’d
die for. Yet, the Bible tells us that Jesus loved His Church so much He died
for her. If you love Jesus, you love what He loves. We’re deluded if we tell
ourselves we love Jesus and don’t love His Church. It’s like someone saying, “I
love you but can’t stand your son.” It just doesn’t work. God has designed
worship and church attendance to help us grow. We sing, pray, and listen to
God’s Word together, not alone.
Most
believers have no idea of how frequently they miss church. Look back over the
past three months and note how often you missed. It may shock you. If you evaluated
it on a percentage scale, comparing it to how often you exercise, go to work or
school, you’d know how much that low percentage hurts you. And it’s much more
than just attending. It’s being engaged. It’s coming prepared and letting the
Spirit work in your heart.
Authentic
Christians value being part of a small group. If you were invited to a
weekly group and meeting with them guaranteed you’d increase your income 10%,
most would join. The eternal benefits of being in a small group are greater
than a 10% income increase. Jesus first chose a small group, the disciples. God
has designed us for community. It’s hard to have community other than a small
group. They’re crucial to your spiritual growth and authenticity. Personal
growth and discovery happens best in a small group. You learn, ask questions,
involve yourself in the lives of others, and generally make yourself vulnerable
with others who are doing the same. You develop deeper friendships. When people
really know you, your life becomes more transparent. There are opportunities to
discuss life’s difficult issues with others who hold a biblical worldview. Lives
are sharpened and spiritual growth is encouraged. Authenticity happens.
Too many Christians are often carnal because they’re spiritually hungry.
They’re not authentic. It’s a lot like Snickers…“You’re not you when you’re spiritually hungry. You must consistently
spend time with Jesus, faithfully attend church, and be part of a small group.”
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